Better reporting of and process for OTA updating

Add ability to request a reload to LinkButton and Link
Added exponential backoff to reconnection
Made the number of reconnect attempts settable
Doesn't attempt a reconnection if we intentionally disconnect
Make sure the fire-and-forget for TURN activity doesn't result in unhandled promise rejection.
Fix comment
Added force page reload to the onClose events of update/reboot
Ensure we get the correct UI version.
Fixed comment about the system update progress
Removed duplicate code between main and devices.$id
The isOnDevice and checkAuth can be leveraged from devices.$id.tsx
Extend retries to 2000 (which is 20000 seconds after backing off)

ui/src/routes/devices.$id.tsx

@@ -243,7 +243,7 @@ export default function KvmIdRoute() {
 
       shouldReconnect(event: WebSocketEventMap['close']) {
         console.debug("[Websocket] shouldReconnect", event);
-        return !isLegacySignalingEnabled.current;
+        return !isLegacySignalingEnabled.current && !connectionFailed;
       },
 
       onClose(event: WebSocketEventMap['close']) {